nightlifehighlife:

I’ve heard countless bullshit excuses from girls I have liked.

But just for the fun of it, I’m going to take the time and list some of them.

First one:

“You’re a great guy. Any girl would be lucky to have you. But I see you as a friend.”

Okay, let’s see… Any girl would be lucky to have me,…

There is no friend zone. Either you’re her friend or you’re not. If all you’re looking for is ass then you’re not her friend. Girls do say things like this honestly and if you were her friend you would leave it at that. If they were any more honest they would say things like I don’t see you that way, or I’m afraid to be in a relationship please don’t get mad and rape me. Because guys that don’t take these nos for answers are usually rapists. When you keep pestering a girl about sex or a relationship and bitching about the nonexistent friend zone the message you send her is that being her friend is a waste of time and all you’re interested in is her body. If you’re not a good friend to begin with you can’t be put into any “friend zone”